?? August 1992Dora Rice (To Monica & Frank)

Lady and gentleman are you please together? Round there, there

was a lovely light and it shone across and then it was a star,

a sixpointed star. Something you're both working for, a unity,

a comingtogether, and it's there in the star for you. All right.

And I want to please bring the feeling of a mother, but I don't

feel as a such she was a mother, but she was a motherly kind of

person, please, and she's trying to impress you both and

somewhere you have to put the motherly function into action, you

understand. All right, thank you.

And you know dear, you've got some very lovely beads at home. You

don't wear them. You've had a look at them lately thinking maybe

I will, maybe I won't. Do wear them, even if it's just now and

then. Do wear them, it would please someone in spirit.

Wed 19 February 1992Maureen French (To Monica & Frank)

There's a gentleman there in a red jumper and I'm linking him

with the lady next to you. Is that right? Good. I mean I know it

is really, but I meant that I got right, because where the

communication comes I have to listen very hard.

As I make a link with you here, I have a little girl who is in

spirit that you should understand, and this little girl was a

special one when she came on earth. You just recognise it in

some, you look, although all babies are special, all children are

special, there is something that just sets apart one who is

really special, and this little special one has come in today

just to stand here. She's a small little soul and she's just sort

of turned round because she's rather shy as well. But she comes

in to bring you a lot of love, because you need this love. It's

being wrapped up for you, obviously it's being wrapped up. I

don't understand what I'm having to say to you. So don't think

that anyone knows, but what it is you are looking for this girl

has to bring for you and it is as though she's handing this

parcel to you, because what it is that you want she is handing

to you. Do you understand? It's wrapped up so much, you see, you

don't understand. I can only just give it to you like that. Now

maybe in a quiet time you'll have to think that over, but I have

to give it, because she was here and the children don't go until

we recognise them. They're just as they were on earth, they don't

go until you have answered them or tell them what they have

asked. But now she has given that she has gone.

Do you understand the name of Doris in spirit? I fell I'm with

the lady with this one, Doris in spirit. Now this Doris is saying

she was called Dora by some people when she was on earth and she

was a member of a very large family. I feel she passed sort of

midfifties towards sixty and she's a member of a very large

family. She was married briefly. Because she was widowed very

early on, she didn't have any children herself. And she has come

in with you and she is saying, particularly to the lady with this

one, she's saying if you stick at something with quiet determination we often get there far quicker and far simpler than if you

make a great fuss and kerfuffle about it. Now I feel that you've

learnt this, and you very often can see where someone is going

at it, what do they say, to crack a nut with a sledgehammer or

something like that. This lady was like that herself and it's as

though she breathes this calmness with you, and it's there too

because it's as though you're teaching someone, or trying to get

through to someone to calm down, to stop, be calm about it, try

this way and that lady is with you there in this teaching

fashion.

Now I've got to come to the gentleman. Do you understand the name

of George which is being given in spirit. George, not shortened

to anything but George, and he was saying, he's a manual worker

and proud of it and he could turn his hand to anything. If

someone wanted him to carry things he'd carry them, if they

wanted him to dig he'd dig, if they wanted him to build he would

build. And he was very practical and very strong and it was his

strength if you like that was his trade. He's here now. He's

brought a horse with him because he's also worked with horses,

and this was when you saw the soft side of the strong man. It was

like a silent communication between man and horse here. But again

it is his physical strength he has brought. And it's his physical

strength that he's brought for you, for your needs at the moment.

It's as though you need to be awake for almost 24 hours in the

day, and you could do with a 36 hour day so that you can sleep

in the other 12 hours. But this man has brought his physical

strength for you.

Would you understand the anniversary in February? Right they're

speaking of that.

Would you understand too the lady that kept the pressed flower.

Now I can't tell you if it's a prayer book or a bible, but it's

that kind of very thin paper and she has a pressed flower pressed

in there. And this flower was from many years back. She's put it

in a little piece of that very fine cotton material that's almost

like tissue. I can't think what you call it. But it's folded in

there and it's very special. It came from years back and she

kept it and kept it and she's put it, she's just brought it here

to be remembered. And she's saying to you, she's talking to you,

to both of you, about daisies. She's talking about daisies and

daisies given from spirit are a sign of service. So if you accept

the daisies, you are accepting that you are going to be of

service. Also, of course, in taking the daisy, you know how often

they grow everywhere, and they are walked over. You will experience that, indeed you have experienced that as well, as though

you have been walked over. And she's brought these in because

she's saying "Yes, they're indestructible. The more you push them

down, the more they force themselves back". And this is what is

going to happen to you. The more, if you like, that it seems as

though the world has it to push you down, the more you will rise

back. So always know, you can't be pushed down you will always

be strengthened, and you will rise back, always. Providing, of

course, you want to. And bless you.

1 February 1992Anne Hunt (To Frank)

I'm coming with you sir. I've got all the gentleman tonight.

That's nice isn't it. It must be bucking me up a bit. They know

I'm getting down now you see, so they know I need a bit of help.

Would you link with the name of Phil or Philip on the earth

plane, please. Because I've get Phil or Philip here and I know

it's an earth plane name not a spirit. You don't.

Just hold on a minute because that name is being called through

the spirit world and I feel I've got a gentleman here and now

he's showing himself. He's not too tall, thick set and hair that

is cut quite short and it would have been more of a sandy colour,

and I feel he kept it quite short because he said it used to get

a bit curly on the front and he didn't like it, and he used to

have it cut very short to the head. Rather a square type of face,

quite strongly marked features, and I feel with him that he was

strong in his makeup as well. He gives me the feeling that he

knew where he was going and what he was doing, and he comes in

still in that manner. I'm aware with him that he hasn't been in

the world of spirit too many years, so therefore he says he's

still ??? with things that are happening on the earth plane. He's

linking with you very strongly. I feel when he was here he would

have worked where there was machinery, because I'm hearing

machinery going, and I feel that I'm in quite a big workshop

where he would have worked on the earth plane. But he's bringing

this feeling with him, because he wants to, as it were, give you

his reassurance and his bolstering up. Now I don't know quite

what he means by that, but there is something here where I feel

that he's bolstering you up and he's giving you that wherewithal.

Are you, in some way or other, contemplating a complete change,

please? You're not? Well, would you understand if I say to you

there is going to be. Now I don't like being so positive. I'm not

usually, because I'm a bit uncertain. But somebody is here and

they are very positive about this condition, that there is going

to be quite a change that is coming around and about you. And I

feel not only will it influence your life but others that are

linked with you upon the earth plane. I don't feel it is just

something for yourself, but there are others that are included

and it's going to be a complete change of conditions around you.

And as I look forward into, go into, the year I feel that I have

to go forward quite a bit. But, at first, you will say no, and

you will be unsure, because you feel that where you are is safer.

But I have to say from this gentleman in spirit, he was a man

that would have taken life in both hands and grasped the

opportunity. And I have to say to you from him "Please grasp the

opportunity when it is presented to you, because it will be

worked and brought about by those in the world of spirit". Now

I don't know what I'm talking about, sir. I'm just passing on

what this man is giving me from the spirit world, and I want you

to think about it. Whether you take up the opportunity they

present to you is up to you, but it is before you and I'm seeing

it very clearly. Thank you and God bless you.

Wed 4 March 1992Maureen French (To Monica)

I'd like to come to the lady. I believe you've got a brown,

you've got long hair and I believe you've got a brown jumper or

dress. Yes, with the gentleman in turquoise. That's it. It's the

lady I want though. Right.

Now as I make a link here with you my helper is saying to me it's

as though you have a rainbow round your shoulder because you've

got that feeling of wellbeing that comes from deep within. And

she's saying never mind the aches and pains and the headaches and

things like that. She means the wellbeing that comes from

within, because you feel you've sorted things and you've got

yourself on the right track where you want to be. Would you

understand that? Right. So she's put this round here, and she's

saying right now it is entirely up to you what you do and which

way you go forward. There are many paths you can take, many ways

of helping, and each will be equally right. It is really up to

you and it's your choice.

I do have a lady here who did nursing when she was on earth.

She's in spirit now. She was a nurse and I feel that she will

walk with you when your thoughts and mind, as it often does go,

goes to healing, because it's healing of mind, it's healing of

body, it's healing of spirit, all of that is involved with you,

and this lady walks with you in this way. Can you understand the

name of Evelyn? Right, hold it then. This lady, I don't say it's

her name, but this lady gave me the name of Evelyn to give you.

Sometimes it's to help you recognize them. Maybe you don't even

know her name, but if you can place Evelyn, it could be that once

you can place that, you can think of this nurse. But know that

she's there with you and know too that she is a very quiet person

like yourself. And just as if she walked beside you when she was

on earth, you wouldn't hear her, it's like that now. But just as

on earth you wouldn't hear her but you'd gradually be aware of

her presence, so you too will gradually be aware of her presence.

It will be as though, when you are sending out these thoughts,

you will always have a certain feeling with you and that is how

you will recognise her.

I have here a family who were brought up as Catholics. I have the

mother here. She's a big lady, who was the most devout, and said

all the, you know, the prayers aloud and made the sign of the

cross and stood up for grace indoors and went through everything,

brought up the children very strictly in this way. She is here

now, and she's saying she did what she thought was right, that's

what the priest told her to do, and she did it, and she did it

with a good heart. And she's saying "So because of that I was

teaching as I believed my children love of God, gratitude for all

the gifts", but she said "I understand a bit more now, but

nothing is ever wasted". But it hurt her when the family didn't

take it as she did, and so a lot of the children had to observe

these things in the home and once they went out they left it all

behind them. And it hurt her, but she can understand it now, and

she's saying each of her children found their God in a different

way, and it's all become clear. And the reason she's saying this

for you is, she's saying, we all find our God because it's the

God within us, that's part of us, in different ways, and we must

just accept and listen and not worry about what others may tend

to think. So know that a God is a personal God, it's how you find

the Great Spirit, how the Great Spirit works for you. Never mind

what others think, don't worry about it, do it yourself.

And she wants me to tell you, my helper, that your mind wasn't

stretched as far as it could be when you were at school, but you

are continuing, and my word how you are, your education now. It

wasn't wasted, but you weren't stretched as you could have been

stretched. Do you understand that?

I've been taken to November for you, for a special anniversary

that you should understand.

And you should also know too of a baby that was taken to spirit

very, very quickly. It was quite a big baby too, but it went

very, very quickly to spirit. It didn't have time to crawl let

alone walk very quickly, and it was a boy, and it's growing up

as beautiful. The parents were devastated. It's a beautiful boy,

a beautiful soul, and it is, of course, continuing to grow in

spirit. And bless you.

1 April 1992Maureen French (To Frank & Monica)

There is a tall gentleman in the middle there, I think you have

a green coat on. And I'm, whether you've had several messages or

not I don't know, but I'm to tell you, just, just wait, because

it's, it's, everything is being got ready for you. I know you're

ready for what is there, but the circumstances aren't quite right

yet. You have to be patient that little bit longer. But if you

have been promised it from spirit, it will be there. So I'm to

tell you today: hold on, it is coming and when it is it will

just, almost like glide through. It will like, there won't be,

well if are hiccups they'll be hiccups that jump and glide quite

nicely, there won't be big boulders in the way. Things are being

got ready, so hold on.

Do you understand the name of Harriet in spirit, and I'm going

back. Harriet is being called. I have someone, as she links in,

this lady, she was hard of hearing, but she's saying she doesn't

miss anything now. And there were times when she didn't hear what

you said, and yet a little aside she'd hear: "What was that? I

heard that one". And she's here now, and she's bringing this

laughter that will show that, she's bringing this laughter to you

to help you relax as you wait, because waiting is always a

difficult time.

And the helper who's with me now, she's saying she can understand

that because she's an impatient person herself. And she wants

everything done yesterday. But she's saying this time you just

to have hold on. But you know, when you, when you look around

you, you will see every so often, you will think well I'm glad

I had time to do that bit first, I'm glad I had time to do this

bit, and it will all be made clear that little bit later on.

Now I have a gentleman here who's surrounded by shoes. Now which

part he dealt with, I don't know. Yes I do. I can see him, poor

man. He's in the area where the shoes are repaired, but it is a

place where shoes are sold as well. And I have the gentleman here

who did the repairing, and he was someone who came in, did his

work. It was, in a way, it was monotonous, and yet he made a

splendid job, or the best he possibly could, out of each pair

of shoes. And he made, in a way, he made his job himself more

interesting because everything was put so tidily and carefully

away, and when he found out what the repair was to be, he very

carefully wrote it down, so there were no mistakes. And there was

a label on each one, and he tried to recognise the people when

they came in. So he'd be able to give them a name and feel that

communication with them. And he's saying that he didn't realise

that by doing this he was making his work a service. Now he's

saying to you, you see, whatever task you take on, how you

approach it and how you work at it, that's where the service

element comes in. That is where you are characterbuilding, that

is where you are helping others. Because whatever it is, tidiness

is a form of beauty, recognising people is a form of beauty to

them, it's communication as well and he's saying whatever task

is allotted to one you can always make it a task of beauty and

of service.

And I'm to give the name of Keith to you. And I'm not certain,

because it came across while the other, I really don't know if

this one's on the earth or in spirit. But I do feel as I'm saying

it, I do feel he's someone on the earth, someone on the earth.

Keith. Relatively young, like, not at school or anything like

that, a relatively young life that I feel I'm going to come

across again, or it's someone who needs some help. I don't think

they're going to ask for help, but it's going to come across in

communication and conversation.

Is the lady on your right with you, because I get a lovely

feeling there. I do get a lovely feeling of two pathways that

are, can I say, are matching. I want to put it like that. That

as one goes forward here, the next one goes forward here. And

it's parallel, but it can go like that and come back together

again and be strengthened. But it's definitely going the same

way. There's a lot of support around you and a lot of help there.

If you send your mind and call for help, you will receive it. An

bless you both.

8 April 1992Edward Sayers (To Monica & Frank)

.. long hair. Yes, you. I don't know if you've ever wanted to be

a sculptor have you? Because there was a man shaving things by

the side of you. You understand. And he said to me, she has a

need within her. OK. And always remember what the other great

sculptors have said, that within a lump of clay or a piece of

marble there is hidden beauty and it is up to you to find it. OK.

And they've shown you hovering on the brink of things at the

moment. Do you understand? I feel that there will be changes

around you which will be very worthwhile. OK. Because you have

more than avenue of thought in life, and colour will mean a great

deal to you, OK, and also I feel music will as well.

And there's a gentleman standing by the side of you who's rather

tall and thin, do you understand, and I feel he was family. He

could have lost weight, a considerable amount of weight, before

he passed. [Pause] Is it Robert? Well I'll give it to you. Do you

understand? He seems to be watching you closely because he said

to me every time you put your hands out for something, it's no

longer there. Do you understand? You miss it. But you only miss

it because of your thinking. Do you understand? And he wants you

to go for things and make up your mind which avenue of thought

you wish to take, and if it's being a sculptor, for heaven's

sake take it, OK. You may scratch for a little while, but there's

a tremendous joy in creation. OK.

The gentleman next to you. I feel music associated with you or

has been. Is there someone in the world of spirit who is very

musically minded and used to play the piano? There's a gentleman

standing with you and I felt he was musically minded. He was

unable to succeed in what he wanted to do because of the material

side of things. OK. But he said to me something to the effect

that you've got a very logical mind and can use it, and you're

not using it at its fullest at the moment. OK. And before this

year is out you'll have within your grasp something which you can

use all your faculties with. OK. And you won't be scraping the

surface of life, you'll be living it. OK. Because he said to me,

you're too much an observer of life instead of a participant. OK.

There's a dear soul in the world of spirit and it looks like 'dot

and carry one'. She's very small, do you understand. And I felt

she's not a mother, and I felt she could have been a grandmother.

OK. And she's sending all warmth and love to you.

And there's a gentleman also who used to smoke a pipe, and it was

like a dummy to him. OK.

And I felt also, I don't know why, but there should be a course

that you will be doing which will benefit you enormously. OK.

It's not of long duration, it's only about a week or something

of that nature, but it will help you to fulfil what you are

looking for in life. OK. Anyhow, I'm giving it to you as they've

shown it to me. All right. Bless you.

15 April 1992Angela Glennard (To Monica & Frank)

Can I link you in as a couple please. Because I'm linking you in

as a couple, but I've also got a lady and gentleman that are

coming forward. And what I'm actually getting is that the

gentleman passed to spirit 5 years before the lady passed to

spirit. So that to me is quite a close passing. They are talking

about 5 years, and again I want to go back probably to about 10

or 15 years. I feel as if I've been taken back that far. It's

because, as they present themselves to you, I can't see them very

clearly at the moment. They're just coming forward like that. As

they're coming there is, they would have been virtually inseparable on the earth plane, and although the one did cope afterwards

it was almost as if half of them had gone. Now in this I feel

that there is something going on around you two at this moment,

where you really do, the pair of you, need to stand very firmly

together. Now would you understand why there has to be this

unity, a closeness, a standing together. It seems as if the two

of you have got to pool your ideas and talk things over to get

that strength of unity to be able to cope, as if I've got plans

for something. Yes, as if there, it's almost as if I'm planning

on changing my way of life in some way, and I'm making these

changes, but I need the strength of the two to be able to do it.

Does it make sense? [Monica: I suppose it might something to do

with work] But it needs the two of you to be able to ... and it,

when it materialises it will actually make quite a difference to

your life as it is now. Yes? Do you understand that? Right. Well

this is when I want, ... and as this couple is coming forward,

it is because this is how I would want you to talk things over

so that the strength is there. There is nothing tucked away and

any little difference of opinion there would come out very

quickly you see. Before there's a lot of ... it can be sorted out

immediately to get that strength to be able to go forward.

And as I'm looking at the gentleman that is coming through ...

And again I feel the lady might be a little bit on the shy side,

because I'm looking at this gentleman and, as I look at him,

he's got ... I think he must have wasted a bit before he actually

passed to spirit because his face has gone very thin and it gives

the appearance of him looking as if he's got really quite a heavy

moustache. But I'm sure that if his face was a bit fatter the

moustache would spread out. But do you know what I mean when the

face has gone in it looks thick and wicky. And yet I'm sure that

when he was younger it would have been quite a trim moustache.

I'm getting the impression that his eyes would have been dark

there because the eyebrows are dark as I look at them so I feel

again right up until moreorless the gentleman would have passed

that he would have kept this dark hair. The moustache has got a

bit of grey, the eyebrows are dark, but I suppose it would have

been that sort of dark grey that when you look at it quickly it

gives you ... Does that help at all? Because you see as I'm

getting him I get the suit is too big so he must have wasted

quite a bit. But the lady that is coming with him, although she's

sort of nervous and standing a little bit behind, is, I don't

want to be rude, but literally she is wide as he is thin.

But it's almost ... They are an elderly couple. The lady would

have passed to the world of spirit ... was something to do with

her, not necessarily a throat condition, but she would have had

something which would have caused a burning in her throat. Now

the way I feel it is as if ... whether it's a type of indigestion, stomach problems, like bile sort of burning in my throat

and she would have complained about this, and I think it was

because ... She wouldn't have said how ill she felt, she would

have complained continually about either heartburn or indigestion

there. Does that help at all on that? It's this regurgitation in

the throat there.

This couple did not live in the town, they actually lived out of

the town. And what I am being shown is, I'm not saying it's a

proper farm, but I'm actually being shown a pen with a dozen

chickens in there as if they would have been able to go out, so

somewhere they would have kept chickens. It was somewhere that

the pair of you, I want the two of you, would have gone, that

used to, at some time or other, and picked catkins. Because that

is where you know the branches when the .. things, and willow now

would you ... can you place where I would have gone to pick, it

seems as if the pair of you are out and have picked a few, I've

not great big branches, but some odd bits, of this, as if you've

gone for a walk somewhere, would have picked this bit and it's

somewhere around there I want this couple. She's talking about,

you're quite artistic actually with your hands, in making little

decorations and things like that. [I paint a little] Is it

painting? But you ... because what I'm actually getting is like

a little, is as if I've picked these twigs and made like a little

table decoration thing, and I'm not saying necessarily it was

you, but that's what I'm being shown, as if something like a

little decoration. [I have actually picked just leaves and put

them in vases] OK and there would be like the pussy willow type

of thing sometimes that would go in? The silvery one? Will you

think about somebody, because that is where I want to link this

couple in, but the nearest I can describe the way that she showed

it is, I don't want ferns, you see, I want it with twigtype

things, there, I suppose leaves and things, I'm certainly not

seeing flowers there, it's with catkins on it and pussywillow

and that's where I've gone and picked it ... picked the little

pieces like that. Just ... picked little pieces like that? Will

you go along with me on that one, you'll give me that one, the

only way to describe it is like a table decoration. Not very big,

because what I'm being told is the overall large things do

nothing for you, you have to come in and work with smaller things

because you prefer things to be more dainty than a heavy solid

lump. Do you understand that? Because that is the way I'm being

...

There's just one other thing before I leave this lady, because

I will give it to you. I'm still trying to get something to make

it a bit more positive for you. She used to hemstitch. This

lady would hemstitch, as I'm being shown it, it looks as though

she's doing it on pillowcases. And what I'm getting is sheets

that have the good bit cut off, made into pillowcases, and hemstitched. So that could also be that perhaps you need to be a

little bit thrifty. What she's showing, and she would have taken

a pride in doing it, but I'm just seeing by the edge of the

thing, the neat hemstitching. All right. I hope you can place

it.

Obviously it's coming on a memory link, that the couple are

coming. But the most important thing is, please, the unity. No

little things, thinking on your own, come out with it straight

away. See there aren't differences if you voice it straight away,

just the little things, that's where the strength is. Because I

do feel there will be quite a big change in the way of your

material life to what it is at this moment in time. And I'm not

saying you're going to be millionaires or anything like that,

because I don't feel that's the way. But I do feel very strongly

that there is a lot of work that you are going to do and you need

to be as a pair. OK? So I'll leave it like that.

6 May 1992Mrs Grey (To Frank)

I think, I'm not absolutely sure, but I think I'm going to the

lady and gentleman on the edge there. All right. Thank you.

Now as I look at the gentleman, there's someone standing behind

you now. This gentleman is very tall and he's got very grey hair,

and it's thinning on top. Now does that description mean anything

to you at the moment, because I'm not getting any clearer at the

moment? [It could do because I come from a very tall family] Do

you? Right, because this gentleman's very tall, and it's almost

... He's got hair at the sides but it's gone very, very thin on

top, and I feel I want a grandfather or a greatuncle, that

generation. [Well I'm afraid they died before I was born, so I

wouldn't know] Ah, you haven't got any photographs, there's no

way of checking, oh right. OK. What a shame. Well, will you

please accept that even though you don't know them, you will do

when you pass, but they certainly know you. Because they still

take an interest even if you didn't know them. All right. Now,

have you have gone through a period recently of uncertainty?

[Yes] Right, because that's, I can't describe it, but it's just

that's I feel. I'm just not sure. I'm not 100% sure. They're not

telling me what it is you are unsure about, but so long as you

can understand, that's all that matters. It doesn't matter that

we don't understand. And that's the feeling, and, but nevertheless, even though you didn't know them, they're saying we're

right behind you, and we're going to make sure that you do know

what's going on. Would you understand? Because you've been

asking, haven't you? Asking for help. And they've been picking

up your thoughts, and they're saying we're right there and we're

going to make sure that you're not uncertain for much longer. All

right.

I've got, now, you probably don't know if you don't know your

family, but I've got to link you in for the month of March for

some reason, the middle of March. Would you understand why they'd

be giving me that. Would, all right, OK.

I'm also getting, they're giving me yellow flowers for a reason.

Would you understand why they'd be giving me yellow flowers, or

is it, am I now still linking with the March, I'm springtime

aren't I? You wouldn't understand why ... Can I then, I'll accept

that they're giving it to me symbolically, that it's life. All

right. It's a beautiful gold colour, and I feel that you're

asking, and you're searching, and I feel that, you're, (OK, thank

you) they're saying to me you're on the right road. Again,

symbolically, obviously. All right. And you're going to be (all

right) you're going to be given so much proof that you won't

doubt again. Does that make sense? All right.

There are children in the family, aren't there? Not necessarily

yours, but children. I don't know if they're nephews or nieces

or what, but I want youngsters that people in spirit would be

taking an interest in. [I have nieces but they're not that young,

in their late teens] Oh, I saw them as younger, I have to be

honest, but I mean it could be me picking it up, but I'm saying

children, but they're all children to us aren't they, but I'm

going just a bit ..., but I'm saying, I want to go to two

youngsters that the spirit world are taking an interest in.

All right, now (all right). Now there is a lady here and she's

saying you're not going to let to let him get away with this

because he knows me. All right. (all right). Now I can't see her

yet, I can't describe her, but I don't feel she's been on the

other side very long. Am I linking with the lady as well here?

No, right. There's a lady that you know of that's been on the

other side only two or three years, fairly recently. All right.

And you know her, because she's saying he's not going to get away

with this, ... You know her, all right ... Was she a very

forceful lady please? Yes, because she said you're not leaving

him yet because I haven't got through and he knows that I'm

around. Well, it's your mum, as you said then, who's taking an

interest in the children. Well obviously she would be, it would

be her grandchildren, wouldn't it, then, right, OK.

They're putting books in front of you. Are you a great reader?

All right, because I've got books. They're not necessarily on the

shelf at the moment, they're all piled up and I feel that you're

sort of going to one and then going to another. All right. You

know what they're talking about. All right.

Can you just remember then that you're going to get it proved to

you so many times you won't doubt. All right. Because that link

is there even though you didn't know everybody they still are

aware of you. OK. Thank you.

30 September 1992Maureen French (To Monica)

Lady in green behind the lady there please. For you too I feel

there is an anniversary coming up, just into October. We're

nearly there. There's an anniversary in October. It's somebody

who's in spirit. It's a lady who is in spirit. She's just saying

it's birthday, but you know as she says this, I have a feeling

that it's her spiritual birthday. I feel we would call it her

passing.

But she is running round, she's laughing, she's stopping, she's

saying "look at me", she's singing, she's showing herself in an

absolute complete muddle and saying "yes, everybody's coming and

that'll be all right". And this was her, because she gave out so

much love and so much happiness, and everybody knew they were

most welcome there. She said "I was an appalling organiser, but

everybody came in and took over. I just, you know, said 'yes,

that's there, that's there' and they all got on with it beautifully". And she's come to you now, and the reason she's come to

you is, standing behind you as she's put her hands on your

shoulders, it's because you too are like that necessary peg in

the middle that everybody else hangs things on. I want to put it

like that. You have to be there. They all have to do their own

thing, all have to sort it out, but it's as though it's all done

through you. They'll either tell you or ask you or involve you

or want you to know whatever it is. You are there for that

reason, and that's why this lady is linking with you, to give you

the strength and the understanding. And she's saying too "some

of the things you hear, it's a good job you too have a sense of

humour".

She's brought in an enormous German shepherd dog. Do you

understand this? Right. Again she's laughing. I see. The clue is:

she's brought it in. She's said to me "I've brought it in", and

it's an enormous one. She wouldn't have stood anywhere near one

when she was on earth. She was frightened of these big dogs,

that's what the secret is. But she has it with her now, and she's

saying "this is a symbol of protection". Now protection,

spiritual protection, is the protection of your self, of your

spirit, and it's as though she's brought this dog in to walk with

you, to protect the real you. That's not ... Yes, of course,

you're being bruised by this world, we all are, not the real you,

not the spirit.

Right, now she's gone and someone has come in with a chicken

under their arm. They used to keep chickens and they've got this

one under their arm just to show they used to keep chickens. They

could have told me, but obviously they wanted to bring it here.

They've just popped it down there. Someone who brought that in

because in a way it was the only outstanding thing they felt of

their life. They felt they lived an ordinary life, but so happy,

but this was different. Well, it sure was, not many bring in a

chicken, do they? Also, too, this one has put their hand in their

pocket and taken out an egg. And not only are they giving you

the symbol of spiritual food, they're also here showing you too

the symbol of new life. Right. Now you can accept that in

whichever way you like. It's veiled from me. I can only give it

to you in this way. I don't feel that it's a new life coming the

earth. I feel it's as though there will be a new life, a new

start, a new way ahead for you.

And bless you.

1 November 1992Edward Sayers (To Monica)

Yes dear, you. I've got a lady very similar to you, standing

behind you, sending all her love and warmth. And I feel I want

to be on your mother's side of the family, but it isn't mother.

Do you understand? I feel it could be a grandmother. And she was

sending you all her love and she said at the moment you've come

to a full stop in things. Do you understand? And you see no way

forward or how there will be going forward. She said it's not

only in one aspect, it's in many. Do you understand? Round you,

she said, at the moment it's like a stewpot. Everything's going

round and you're getting nothing out of it. All right. But she

also wanted you to know that, to hold on, but to decide what you

want and then go for it. Do you understand? Because it seems your

mind is a bit of a hotchpotch at the moment. Do you understand?

You think in one direction, then you think in another. Do you

understand? She said "If you once make up your mind what you

want, send out a thought to the world of spirit, and be positive

about it, it will come about". OK. And you have been able to hold

your reins before and you'll be able to do it in the future. OK.

And you've got, you like doing things with your hands too, don't

you? You're very creative, I feel. And she said to me "And don't

neglect that side of your nature either, because there will be

a time when you will do something with your hands that you're not

doing now that will bring you a bit of cash". OK. And she said

"She could do with it now, but she hasn't got the wherewithal to

grasp it". All right. And she said "You may feel that you've

stepped off on the wrong foot in life, but forget it". OK. "It's

up to us to decide what the pattern will be". OK. Anyhow, she

sends you all her love and warmth to you, and she tucks you under

the chin. She said "Keep it up". She said "You're moving in the

right direction and you can't see it yet. OK. Anyhow, bless you.

30 November 1992Harry Olner (remembered) (To Monica)

I feel as though I want to stop from worrying about something.

You are worrying about what's going to happen next. You've been

looking at it in the wrong way. I feel as though there are two

directions you can go in and you haven't yet looked in the right

direction. Don't worry about it. It will be all right. This seems

to be mostly a message of encouragement. I don't know whether

you've thought about .. helping people. The spirit friends seem

to want you to help people because you would find it very

rewarding, whether it's nursing or visiting people or writing

letters to people. I don't know whether you write letters, but

letters can be very encouraging. Does September mean an anniversary? There's someone that you've been worrying about. Just as

you need peace, you should send them peace, because peace is

what they most need at the moment. Not to worry, it will all work

out all right.

27 December 1992David Harris (remembered) (To Monica & Frank)

[To Monica]

He stood like this (hands). He was wise and things he said would

have a lot of meaning. He was quite mystical/philosophical. Very

smart. Not good looking but his face lit up (when he spoke?)

He knew a lot. He likes to browse through all the books around

you, the philosophy books. (mistook it for Daddy then said are

there a lot around you in your home).

Your mother musn't let the grass grow under her feet. Someone who

worries a lot, and they liked to be together (e.g. at Christmas).

He knew about spiritualism, but would take it all in and make his

own mind up, not being involved but took an interest.

Do you like oriental furniture, oriental things? Very strong link

with the orient.

He's particularly pleased to have got through to you, especially

at Christmas, because it means a lot to you, the Christmas

spirit, family together.

Have you got a red flowered plant (or redleaved pointsettia)

or you've been somewhere where there is one recently. You like

growing houseplants, don't you, and you're very good at it.

[To Frank]

I've got an uncle here, who passed from ling cancer, and used to

smoke cigarettes/pipe. Calm person with a pipe.

Who is Frank or Franklin?

You need to be more calm and relaxed. Take things a day at a

time, and try to take a wider view of things.

[To Monica (rushed because pianist had returned to piano)]

Someone who suffered from migraine.

Brother. Someone who's been away, and you haven't seen for a long

time, but just seen.

He is very, very proud of the boy, because it's been hard and

he's achieved a lot.

10 January 1993Angela Glennard (To Frank)

I have been watching the gentleman that has been pottering around

and I want to say quite a wiry sort of gentleman, not over tall

and we've gone back a little bit in time because he is the sort

who would have worn a peaked cap most of the time. I saw him

actually pottering around in a garden. Now in the garden there

would have been a blue hydrangea. I don't want the deep blue.

It's got a slight pinky tinge. But what I felt from this

gentleman was his partner had gone and he lived for quite ...

There's this awful sense of loneliness that would have been with

this gentleman, and it would have pottering around in the garden

that he would have been at his happiest. As I'm talking about

this gentleman there is a, I can't see his hair, quite a slim

face. This gentleman wore glasses and I get the feeling that he

would be, that he would stand up straight, that he was a little

bit on the roundshouldered side. And also the other thing with

this gentleman is, I don't want that he would have been a good

gardener. I want a gentleman that would have pottered in the

garden, and just, it would always have been tidy, but not an

expert gardener. And yet as he's going around here, is that ...

As he worked in the garden he would have tied something round the

lower part of his trousers to sort of keep them up a little bit.

Does this gentleman mean anything to anybody?

It would seem as, with wearing the peak cap with the shirt

sleeves rolled up, that I feel that I've gone back. Possibly that

I might be talking ... I want to say uncle rather than grandfather. I'm being told by this gentleman that his wife passed

twenty years before him. So he had twenty years of being on his

own, and I feel that the children would have moved away from him,

so this is why there was this sense of loneliness. Also, I get

the feeling with this gentleman that he would have been, I want

to say, a quiet, reserved kind of gentleman would have kept

himself very much to himself, would not have been one to ask his

neighbours. I feel very much as if I'm being pulled over to this

side of the room. Can I go back to the hydrangea bush. Has

someone just fairly recently put a hydrangea bush in their

garden? Perhaps it flowered for the first time in this year, or

they've got plants, something with a hydrangea bush? I feel as

if I'm going over that side of the room. The glasses that this

gentleman would have been ... We definitely must have gone in

time because as I'm looking it, he would have for many years had

them sort of plastered, and I want the old ... I'm looking at an

oldfashioned bit of plaster, ??? like the zinc oxide, not the

modernday elastoplast, seems more like tape, that this gentleman

would for many years have done that.

Right, have we got a Marjorie in this room, or is there someone

who is close to a person being called Marjorie, Marge, Marjorie.

[Frank: I've got an aunt called Marjorie]. And this gentleman

doesn't mean anything to you at all? [Frank: No]. Marjorie would

be still on the earth plane? Have you seen this lady recently?

[Frank: No, not for a few years]. There is something about this

hydrangea, I can't shift from that, it's not being moved, and as

I am looking at it, it's that pale blue with a hint of pink in

it and it is something to do with this gentleman as well. Does

a hydrangea bush mean absolutely nothing to you. [Frank: Yes, I

moved one about a year ago, that's all I can think of]. At the

bottom of it, were there quite a lot of bits, what I am being

shown is under the roots are little bits of metal as if

somebody's been trying to change the colour of it. When you dug

it up, was there not a lot of stony, rubbly stuff underneath it,

among the roots, I don't want just earth [Frank: there was stony

earth]. Right, there was quite a lot of stuff, more than you'd

expect to find there underneath the roots. [Frank: I don't think

so, not compared with the rest of the garden]. I'm going to stick

my neck out on that one, I think if you stop to think about it,

you'll find that when you did it looks as if someone was trying

to change the colour by what this gentleman was saying and they

put some rubbly stuff underneath to try to do it, alright, I'l

leave you to think about that one when you go back under, if you

do you'll find there's perhaps just a little more under that one.

I would want, if it's possible, would you like to try to

contact your Aunt Marjorie, or Aunt Marj, about this gentleman,

because the connection is there you see,it's because you see what

this gentleman, would you understand is that you might have moved

a hydrangea bush, but.. Also that there has been quite an

uprooting for you and I would not want to go all that far back

as if I'm tentatively putting my roots down again to be able to

make, it's almost as if I've made a fresh start upon things or

something. [Frank: Yes I think I can make sense of that]. Yes,

it's because you see, yes, I do also have to say to you, there

is, we can get rid of a lot of the prob.., we can .... by moving,

by transplanting ourselves, I'm going to stick with mu bush

because that's the way I'm being shown the way I'm to explain it,

is that as we transplant ourselves, we can't possibly have it all

smooth.It seems as if I need to contain myself a little bit. I

don't quite know, whether, if you're, you see as I am looking at

it, the roots are spreading out as if I need, until I am firmly

established. I need to keep my roots perhaps a little bit drawn

in., that I am not overreaching until my base is firm. [Frank:

I'll have to think about that] No, because, better not because

I don't want you to think too much if it doesn't make any sense

at all.

This upheaval that Ive had.. . But there is this as if, this

upheaval that I've had and made my fresh new start is, I must

expect some little thing, but I must be aware of this overreaching, as if I'm perhaps taking on a little bit more than I should

at this moment in time. I should be content to go along a little

bit as things are before I go forward, to make sure that my

foundation is firmly rooted. I don't know if you do reach out for

various things in life, perhaps, I don't know which way I'm doing

it, maybe it's not for the .., maybe it's just the reaching out,

for .. Maybe it's not material, maybe it';s reaching out for

other people, I don't know, I'm not picking up anything on that.

But there is this ..., which I seem to need and it is important

that I contain it. I've got to get this message over from this

gentleman, that you hold on the reaching out, sort of make do for

a little while until you're absolutely positive that the ground

you're standing on is as firm as you'd like it to be. Stony it

might be, but it will. I want my roots to go down, rather than

out, OK? I'm not really happy about that because I don't think

you understand [Frank: Ah, I think I might be able to make sense

of it].

Right, OK. I did ask for just one thing to clarify a little

bit of what I've been trying to say. What I'm actually being

shown is a lot of papers. It seems as if I am writing something

and then pushing the papers aside and then trying to write again.

I don't know whether it's to do with my work or anything, but..

It appears as if I've a lot of papers that I'm writing on and

moving around. with various things. And to me it feels as if

I am writing something and testing out an idea, leaving it there,

because I might want to come back to that and writing something

[FranK: Yes, I do do that]. You understand that. Can I bring all

of what I've said to you into that situation of where those

papers are concerned. Get my roots down before I spread out. OK?

Does that help at all? [Frank: Yes].

It's almost as if I'm writing down ideas, You know I think

well. Some have gone in the book. I know that they're in, and I

know that they're rubbish to start off with. But some I've kept

and just pushed them to one side. Not out of the way, but they've

just been moved because I might want that in a minute and do it

that way and that is the situation that will.. But I would like

you to contact your Auntie and find out about the gentleman. The

glasses were quite thick lens, but the most distinct thing was

that he was always sticking it up with a bit of tape and it would

always be on the left habd side of the glasses.

6th January 1993 Maureen French (For Monica)

Now I have a lady here, she's come in and it's as though she's

all dark because I feel she's coming in showing herself as

somebody who was unhappy on earth and lived a sad life on earth

and was this sort of shutin person. Having recognized her like

this, she's just a little bit taller than me, as she's bent over

but of course, as she, now, I think she's been in spirit a good

length of time, that can be anything, but then 1015 years, is

what she's giving me, 1015, that length of time, because she's

been there that length of time and was always ready to listen,

she never moaned, but she always took everything deep inside

herself and this brought the unhappiness, but as I see her now,

having accepted that as she stands up straight in there she's

quite a bit taller than me and I feel too that she's gained, as

I see her, in physical strength but of course this comes through

an inner knowledge ana it has been showing itself in this way but

the lady who on earthwas tiny and insignificant and sad, because

that was her opinion of herself, in spirit now has learnt and is

much stronger, both within and without. Now she wants you to know

that, I can't tell you why, but it's something that you must hold

within so that you know that there can be these changes. Now I

had to give that to you first.

Right, now, my helper hs come in and he's saying that

you've, January is an anniversary month important to you, but

having said that as well, you've got February as well, beginning

of February, almost like in the first week of February, there's

another anniversary as well, and I have, she's bringing in a lady

who is talking about going to pick those bluebells. And this

particular lady, she's telling me, loved flowers, loved the

colour blue, absolutely loved blue, and it had a lovely calming

effect. She was a lady who was good with colours anyway and

would surround you with things that were pretty and nice and good

and clean and lovely. ANd I see her now, just in front of you,

she's not standing behind you,